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Recently I have thinking alot, about blogging, updates in facebook and tweeting. Any means where you share info about your daily life.
People has been telling others about what they do (almost every minutes) by tweeting, where they went last weekend, what office politics they have gone through during the day and most of the people tell others alot about their relationship.
For me, I find it disturbing when people know too much about me. I feel insecure ( dun ask me why). That explains why I seldom talk about my relationship. I think I have the fear of people judging me, but I know whatever you do, people will judge you.
For instance, A dated B for few months and broke up and went for C ( common scenario) – people will say ‘poor B, he has been so sweet, he bought her an iphone, threw her surprises, went on pre-honeymoon holiday with her but yet the relationship dint work out and B went for C. They will continue to make assumptions that C is richer or more good looking than B, therefore A dumped B. Thats what happen when people know too much about one’s relationship. What happen if B actually cheated on A, or what happen if A and B often argue over petty stuffs but A only shares the good memories with the public so others only see the good side of the story.
I do not even share my birthdate with people. I wish that my friends will remember my birthday sincerely, not just when they see reminder on facebook. I had a guy who even send me messages on friendster last time to wish me happy birthday (based on the wrong date I post in my profile) and when I told him the date is not my birthday, he got angry and he said “noone can actually remember all their close friends’ birthday, thats why they invented reminder. ” I replied I do, I remember my close friends birthday even my primary friends’ birthday. Maybe I’m the only one who think this way, should I start learning to accept that noone can actually remember all their close friends’ birthday.
Somehow I know that is the personality of a Scorpion,
Scorpios are often mysterious people because their true feelings run so deep and they keep their emotions hidden.They also like to uncover things under the surface of others and are very intuitive.
They can be strong willed and determined, almost to the point of being stubborn. This makes them great competitors, even if they are able to hide this desire to win from you. This also makes Scorpios very dominant, controlling and passionate. When they do not have a positive outlet for self-expression, they often turn inwards and become destructive.
When wronged, they do not easily forgive. It is almost as if the Scorpio sign invented the word “revenge.” However, they just as easily never forget an act of kindness and are always ready to repay it.
Scorpios are very loyal friends, but can be possessive. Scorpios are also conservative when it comes to money but when they do spend it; they know the right investments to make.
All above said are my traits. -_-
Is it a good thing or bad thing?
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